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Eid Al Fitr Experience

Its 6 am in the morning. The...

Its 6 am in the morning. The cities of our beloved United Arab Emirates from Abu Dhabi to Dubai and all the way to Ajman, Sharjah, Ras Al Khaimsh, to Umm Al Quwain to Fujairah, hear the call to prayer. This is not like the normal fajr prayer – it’s the Eid prayer.

Little boys and young men along with their fathers wear their snow white or sometimes cream colored kandoora along with their ghutra and agal that are freshly pressed and smell of the best dukhoon. Before they leave, they greet each other along with the wives, sisters and mothers. A dab of dhahan oud behind each ear and wrists and off they go to their mosques or to the famous musalat el Eid, open only on the first days of Eid.

The women and girls of the house have prepared the best sweets and are now praying at home and preparing to dress up in their intricately designed jalabiyas. Their homes during Eid have started preparation with food, and dukhoon that incensed all the rooms and corridors. Mothers put chahal on their eyes and help out the younger girls to beautiful gold jewelry and explain the importance of this day. It’s not only about the food and the new clothes, it’s a celebration of the month long Ramadan and to feast after fasting and not to forget it is a time for family, sharing and love.

The men and boys return home, a light meal is served and around 8 am the guests start to arrive. Neighbours pass on greetings, messages are sent and phone calls ringing across house and cell phones with blackberry messages filled with love and Eid greetings and blessings.

The children all sing out ‘atoona eidiya’ and it kind of feels like Christmas with Halloween combined (if you’ve never experienced Eid in an Arab country) and it basically means all the adults give out money to the children. The best sweets are made and eaten during Eid so imagine going from home to home drinking Arabic gahwa and red or milk tea with savories and delicious sweets. The entire look and feel is festive with laughter and joyous stories shared by all.

The streets are also filled with lights and lanterns that commemorate the three day occasion. At around lunchtime, families always go to a grandparent house where the extended family gets together, and at times it could be at aunt or uncles house. This is Eid Al Fitr. A time that is looked forward to by every Muslim around the world.
The day of course is never over, malls are filled with families and friends who get together meet for dinner or movie. Greetings don’t stop for three days and more people and houses to visit make you appreciate the people in your life and how moments and times like these should be recorded, cherished and shared.

From us at Emiratweet, this is only but a snippet of what we experience and hope the little we can share in words with you with be much more in what you share with your loved ones in spirit and gatherings.

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Tweets with meat

Do you ever ask the question as...

Do you ever ask the question as to why we communicate? (Not how) Is it to get a message across; is it to persuade someone or a group of people or do you just communicate to express your feelings? I mean, how useful is this thing we call “Communications”? That question and many others were explored at the Emiratweet Social Media Day held at the Knowledge Village Auditorium. The place is in fact the most appropriate place to discuss and share the knowledge of how we as humans have evolved in the way we speak to ourselves and to others and the means we use to do that.

Heba Al Samt and Hanan Al Huwair are two dynamic young Emirati women who have used their strength in Information & Communications Technology and their zest for promoting all things Emirati, brought to life how important social media is to our lives. The audience as you’d expect was everyone who knew of the event regardless of whether they physically were there and that’s the joy of saying you are an avid social media user because each person there including the speakers were feeding into the live streams via twitter to bring the world closer to our thoughts and our voices. The event in itself was a platform such as many organized before by Emiratweet, to bring likeminded people together to share, learn, take away and hopefully use.

Now, I focused on the overall strategy of the forum but what’s in it for the people who speak, use and know social media? Another question is what’s in it for those who aren’t that into social media and finally, those who might get drawn by the magical powers that social media possess. The answer is simple: you get a voice. I’m surprised at how many people feel the louder you are, the more people listen when in fact you can communicate as silently as writing on a piece of paper and still make the hairs on peoples’ back stand. It’s simple, when you are born you are expected to communicate, how you choose to do that is based on your upbringing, education, resources around and of course your own motivation and how skilful you are when using a technological device. Each person in the room that day has gone through the cycle of communicating, but current social media offers us faster ways to get our messages across.

The interesting thing about the forum is that everyone had something to share and although Social Media has progressed, it hasn’t taken over our communications skills on a face to face level. This surprisingly made us all appreciate one another that we accept the future (which comes with technological advancement) and want to make the most out of it by progressing ourselves and whatever we choose to promote, but we haven’t forgotten the basics of talking to each other and not at each other. I wanted to delve so much into what each speaker said because we all said different things but we spoke in unison when it comes to accepting the progress of modes of communicating, be it tweets with meat, turning Facebook into Facelinks or simply pinging for pleasure.

Before I close I wanted to thank the speakers who sat next to me of the day starting with Aysha Al Janahi @gladiius, Jalal Bin Thaneya @Binthaneya , Heba Al Samt @angelistiic, Mostafa Ali @afmfilms and the MC Ahmed @Alhassoni who exemplify the meaning of empowering Emiratis and Social Media towards a more progress communications world.

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